My generation and the ones following get looked down upon for our demands to have instant gratification. We want the goods delivered. Fast and now. I, too, want it now. I’m willing to put in some effort to get things done, but I want it done well, and I want it now. I want my house to be painted, cleaned, window treatments hung, wood floors installed, beautiful hand-picked pieces for every room, all my magazines read and finished, and all my books and movies read or watched on my “I should read/watch list”. But I have to remember this is not how it works. It takes time!! It all takes time. Unless, as Paul pointed out, I would just do crack; then, maybe I would have more time…
This comes to me in a time of despair.
I’ve been having trouble lately with colors. Making my want-it-now attitude turn sour because now I have to re-do it, again. Here’s my problem: I have this wonderful idea in my head of the exact color I want, but I’m unable to translate that idea into reality when I get to the store to color-match the paint. Or it looks great in a blog post or article and horrible in my house. It’s like reading a great book with all your wonderfully vivid characters in your head and then watching the movie and wondering how the director could butcher all the characters that badly. Except in this case, I am both the book reader and director. So, as I promised from the beginning, I’ll tell you about the good and the bad.
Here’s a list of my distasteful color choices, and their appropriate names, in case you would like to bring them to your home … maybe you could make them loved? In no particular order.
Laundry closet – Benjamin Moore marblehead gold HC-11 – Does anything look good with open-faced/cobbled cabinets and a fire extinguisher?? Really?
Bookshelves – Benjamin Moore providence olive HC-98
Kitchen – Benjamin Moore yarmouth blue HC-150 – It’s not bad, but it’s all wrong. I cannot explain it.
The kitchen was so bad that I woke the next morning after it was finished with hoping it was all just a bad dream. Maybe I dreamt the hideous blue on the walls? Maybe it looks better today, in the morning sun? But it wasn’t. It was still as bright and as awful as it was before. So, I walked into the kitchen, took out all the color samples I owned and painted. Not even the morning coffee could take me away. Until, Paul with his infinite wisdom (or being of the male species) said not to waste my time. “We have to figure out our water damage situation before we paint the whole kitchen anyway, Sarah.”
So, I walked away… I’ll figure it out… later. Here’s the samples… I want a color? Not white or beige, a real color. Any ideas?
My favorite is the top left but we’ll see…
This idea of getting things done was emphasized when I revisited an article I read a month ago in Real Simple. It’s about this girl who always had a to-do list or numbers in her head, from her caloric intake to the day her infant would be a toddler. This sounded familiar to my own life. I too have deadlines: when I’m able to do something or eat something or even when I’m able to go to the bathroom.
“Fold the rest of the laundry and then you can go to the bathroom, Sarah.” Seriously?
I have countless to-do lists from books to read, movies to watch, flea markets to check out, the lists for the house, to detailed hourly schedule for a weekend, a work week. It’s kind of crazy.
So, I vowed on this “labor day” that I would still have a to-do list BUT I won’t have them haunt me if/when I’m unable to finish everything. Maybe even scratch the list completely for a dinner out with friends, or a movie in the afternoon. Life is life and I will reference this article frequently until it becomes second nature! As Paul says, “it’s not a crisis”.
Real Simple article Count Me Out
Otherwise, this weekend was comprised of little tasks: painting missed spots, covering holes, organizing paperwork, and one BIG monster project that was both exciting and scary. I’ll just get to the big guy, he was sitting in our family room sucking the energy out of the space but I felt he was ready for rehab and a new look on life. ;)
He looked like this (below) before I decided the unthinkable!
Sarah, it looks like you have some good ideas but I just wanted to tell you, you know if you paint the fireplace, well, you can never paint it back. ~ A.S.
First, I started by taking down the bronze door and washing off all the brick with a little soap and water. I vacuumed around the door frame because that was McNasty. Oh, the layers of dust. Which lead me to this… already an improvement! I also sanded the mantle surface so the primer would have something to stick to. The little LED tripod work light in the fireplace is a little wonder! Paul got it for Christmas a few years back, and we use it all the time!
I then started the priming process! It was fun to see the transformation and the brick have new life. It looked so sad and dated before! I was going to use a roller for some of it but opted for two paint brushes instead. One small, one bigger. With all the nooks and crannies, this was the best route.
Primed. Check!! Yes, I put my estate sale find on the mantle. Even with just the primer it looks so much cleaner and happier. My estate sale find worked out perfectly, too! I was getting really excited for the final product!
Then I painted the whole thing (two coats and a third to the mantle and hearth) with Benjamin Moore white linen (color matched to Lowe’s Olympic no-voc semi-gloss paint). Because my Benjamin Moore store wasn’t open on Labor Day… and that whole, I want it now attitude. You get the idea.
I’m so happy with the results! I loaded it up with goods so you can get a visual of what it may look like all dressed up!! With all my strike outs, I’m so happy something worked out! Now, we can load the room. It will be ready for grilling and football season! Yay! Especially with the beautiful weather we had this weekend, everyone was ready for the fall… and sometimes you need to stop the projects and play a little football.
Goes to show, 1% of the time, A.S. isn’t always right :-)
In Arlyn’s defense, when he came down and actually sat in our family room, he too said he I would paint the fireplace. I just have to give him trouble! ;)
Yes, father-in-law doesn’t always know best!! It looks GREAT guys! Keep up the good work!!